Big Business or Big RIP OFF?

Since this is a personal blog, I can say Merrill-Lynch, right? I sure hope so because I am! Most of you know about my Beloved "Papa's" death in August of 2011. He had a 401K through his employer, Labconco, with Merrill-Lynch...and herein lies the problem: My two sisters and I have had to endure the loss of our father, becoming executor's of his estate and having to pay $500+ in order to do that when all three of us are struggling for money in the first place. At the time we were already tight and I'm not pleading for Money. That is NOT the issue here. The ISSUE is Taking Care of Families who have lost their loved ones. Bottom line. We have buried our father, paid amounts we Can't Afford to become executor's of his estate in order to Get the amount still in his 401K, waited the six months we had to in order for any bill collectors to Claim their right to the 401K from debt, and we still DO NOT HAVE anything to show for it...they (Merrill-Lynch) even MADE us open accounts online with their company to distribute the 401K easily between the three of us. So, why haven't we seen anything yet and why are we still waiting for well over a year? All I can say about Merrill-Lynch is THEY CANNOT BE TRUSTED. End of Story. {I reserve the right to add more to this entry at a later date. lol} Love & Laughter, Blaze